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Memorializing Memorial Day

May 29, 2011

Yes, tomorrow is Memorial Day.  Many of us think of it as the official start of summer.  Perhaps it’s marked by the Indy 500 race (which is today, BTW).  Or, if you are from the South or are very aware of fashion etiquette, it’s also the first day ladies may decently wear white shoes.

All of these may be true, but the real message behind Memorial Day is often overshadowed by the celebrations and festivities.  It’s a day to remember.

Since our country was founded more than 200 years ago, many people have dedicated themselves to keeping us safe and free. For some, it meant giving their lives in the process.  It is these people whose memory we honor on Memorial Day. While tomorrow is an American holiday, it’s one we need to keep in our hearts regardless of where we are.

At present, I’m in Grand Cayman on business (and sneaking in a little vacation, too, if I’m to be completely honest!). What we have planned for tomorrow is to host an “old-fashioned American Barbecue” for some of our Caymanian friends.  Steaks, potato salad..there may even be an Apple
Pie in it somewhere, along with “home-shaken buttermilk ice cream (thanks, to Food Network Magazine for this one…we have portable ice cream that will be a blast for the kids to take turns “shaking” it to chill).  However, at some point during the fun, we will be making a toast to the fallen and thanking them for their sacrifice.

For me, though, I’ll be remembering someone else, too, who left us last Memorial Day.  No, he didn’t serve in the military, but he was the son in a military family.  Christian Taylor took his own life last Memorial Day as a final escape from the bullying that had been tormenting him for years. I’ve written about Chris before and have gotten to know his mother, Lisa Williams quite well in past several months.  I know Memorial Day is supposed to be about the military men and women who have left us, but there’s room in my heart for Chris and his family as well.

Yes, “Happy Memorial Day” is one aspect of this holiday we’ve been granted, and there is certainly a lot to celebrate. But, if we consider that one of the definitions of “celebrate” means “to honor (as a holiday) especially by solemn ceremonies or by refraining from ordinary business” (source: it’s clear that spirit of the day is to pay our respects and honor those who have died so that we can remain safe and free. That sentiment travels well and doesn’t require any excess baggage fees so I encourage all Americans — whether “home” or abroad, to take a moment and “celebrate” the memory of those who served and the legacy they left.

2 Comments leave one →
  1. James R. Wohlgemuth permalink
    May 29, 2011 6:42 am

    Thanks. Memorial Day should be about more than veterans. I am a teacher and a veteran. I am a Vietnam veteran. Memorial day should be about all those we want to remember. We should remember and honor those who died at Va. Tech and Columbine and Arizona all those in between who die needlessly from guns. Memorial day is a day to remember….everyone and to remember our potential to do better in this society.

    • Corinne Gregory permalink*
      May 29, 2011 8:33 am

      James, I couldn’t agree more. My husband is a Vietnam vet, too and we talked about this before I wrote my post this morning. I appreciate your reading AND your input.

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